In the Tradition of Bert Hellinger..

Family Constellations

Healing relationships,
personal and business,
in Sydney NSW and
Brisbane Qld, Australia

Contents - Expanded Newsletter articles - please click on the article you are interested in

We are all joined by energy.
What can we do about it
Case study.
Why be a participant?
Why choose to do Family Constellations with us
How could a constellation help me
What is different about family constellations

We are all joined by energy.
Even if we are no longer in contact with our family or they are dead, we are still connected. If we have been hurt or abused or neglected or treated unfairly we may have cut ourselves off physically or emotionally or both. However as constellation work repeatedly shows we are still bound by family energy. We are bound even stronger by negative emotions like anger, sadness, indifference or numbness, guilt or shame - Top.

What can we do about it?
The truth is we can’t change “what is”. We can’t change reality. We can’t pretend that we do not come from our roots because without them we would not be here. Staying in these negative emotions prevents us from coming into contact with any strengths and love that our roots could provide for us. This has a very strong influence on self esteem, physical and mental health, relationships, children and restricting our potential for success in the world. Family Constellations can help you to release difficult emotions and reconnect more healthily to your family group, while allowing each member of the group to take full responsibility for themselves and their actions, hence leaving you free-er and stronger to get on with your life.

Bert Hellinger, the originator of family constellations says that patterns continue to repeat in families until they can be exposed and resolved so that healing can commence at its own pace in you. Once an acceptance is reached, then love or life force can flow fully to you and through to other member of the group and especially influence your relationships and free your children.. This can be a profound experience resulting in integration and opening up potential in many areas of life.- Top.

Case study.
Tom came to a Family Constellations workshop with some concern for his daughter Sarah who was ten years old and was showing signs of anxiety and hyperactivity. Tom was in a very loving relationship with his wife and three children of which Sarah was the oldest. The other two children appeared to be doing well. Tom was well educated and had done quite a lot of personal development himself so far. In asking for a few facts about his family of origin, he said that he had very little contact with his parents and that he does not have a good relationship with them.

He was asked to select representatives from the group for himself, his mother, father and daughter and place them in the room in relationship to each other from his own “feeling” perspective, not using his rational mind as much as possible. He placed the representative of himself and his daughter quite close and a long way from the representatives of his parents. The representatives soon started to get some body sensations and feelings as the family field developed in the room in the next few minutes..... Read MoreThe representative of the father turned away from the parents and the representative for the daughter started to shake. The representative for Tom felt a tightening of his jaw and chest. When he was asked to turn to look at his parents, his anxiety increased and the shaking of the child decreased a little. The representative of his parents looked distant and cool. The facilitator gave Tom and his parents a few healing sentences to say to each other that released the tense emotional state of Toms representative quite a considerably. The representative for his mother had softened and Toms representative and was able to move closer to her and hold her hands while looking into her face. The representative of his father continued to look aloof.

On asking for further information of his fathers’ life we found that he had lost both of his parents in the war when he was nine years old. Two representatives were selected for them and placed behind the father. The representative for the father turned, but found it hard to look at them and felt a strong upsurge of anger. Having expressed this several times he now felt sad. After a brief interchange of further healing sentences he eventually looked at them both and fell into their arms embracing them for a few minutes. When he turned round to see his son Tom, now with representatives for his parents behind him, he looked much softer and was able to say to Tom, “I see you now. I‘m sorry I have not been here for you.” The representative for Tom is relieved and moves forward to embrace his father. A few moments later Tom is standing with his mother and father and turns to look at the representative for his daughter. She is smiling and looking calm and moves towards her father and grandparents. At this point Tom is asked to take his place in the constellation instead of his representative. He holds the representative of his daughter’s hand and looks at the representatives of his parents for a while and is visibly moved. The constellation ends here.
Tom contacted me the next day after the workshop to say that his daughter appeared to be much calmer and much more cooperative. Two weeks later he let me know that he had resumed contact with his parents and his daughter is continuing to do well.

This case study is very typical of Family Constellations bringing out the dynamics of a family and also providing a suitable solution. It was possible to see in this case that each person in this group was caught up in family tensions and that once these were released and a few simple interventions were put into place, that love could start to flow more easily and each member of the group felt more comfortable. The daughter here appeared to be a very sensitive indicator of the stress levels experienced in the family energy. - Top.

Why be a participant?

“I attended your workshop as a participant just to check it out, as I had heard so much about the process. I was chosen to be a mother in one of the constellations. The situation was very similar to way I had experienced my mother and I was able to go home with a very different perspective of my situation and have found that my relationship with my children has shifted significantly since then, for the better." Jennifer age 45- Top.

Why choose to do your constellation with us?

We will guarantee that you may do your constellation in a workshop, if that is your wish. We keep our numbers small enough to allow this to happen. Other facilitators allow many more people into the workshop at the same or similar prices to ours, but only a few of them will have the opportunity to do a constellation. For this reason we are offering excellent value to you.
With us you may do a Family or a Business Constellation.
We are well trained by international trainers Svagito Liebermeister and Bert Hellinger himself among others.
We are in gratitude, peace and respect of our own roots and our many teachers.
Yildiz is a respected and highly experienced therapist and Educator (Australian College of Applied Psychology), who provides loving and sensitive facilitation to your unique needs.
Satish is a fully trained Family Constellation practitioner and is also involved in the business world as an IT consultant.
With us you will experience female and male energy.

We have done regular monthly workshops since the beginning of 2005. Satish and Yildiz are the most experienced and effective private Family Constellations specialists in Australia. - Top.

How could a constellation help me?

- Improve your Relationships with lovers, friends, family or work colleagues or bosses.
- Help to ease Parenting issues with your children or your parents
- Help yourself gain more confidence, self esteem, less stress and anxiety.
- Ease tensions in Blended or adopted Families
- Help you let go of Grief/Loss
- Help you to let go completely and respectfully of old relationships to allow new possibilities in. - Top.

What is different about Family Constellations

- helps to resolves one issue in one session - you don't need to have the other person(s) in your issue attend
- we don't need to know what happened in your issue - just some bare facts
- -in setting up a constellation a "field" is set up of the family energy and it is this field that guides the constellation and the facilitator to a a suitable resolution. The resolution ripples out and often effects the other people in your issue even, though they haven't attended the session.

-This is a very respectful and effective way of dealing with sensitive issues.

-Allows healing at all levels, spiritually - at the soul level (personal and family soul) and emotionally, then intellectually.

-This is not psychodrama-acting out or dramatizing is not encouraged.- Top.

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I’ve had some great results from having my own constellation.
Lifelong issues are no longer affecting me, and I’m attracting good things into my life now instead of more problems and difficulties. It’s been amazing, with virtually instant results after only 1 session. Leaves long drawn-out therapy for dead. I am very grateful to Yildiz. She is an intuitive, gentle, genuine and caring person. Many, many thanks.
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